A guy from Ukraine just got here. He is 27. He found me online and began complaining how lonely he is here. I perfectly was aware how it feels to be all alone in a new place. So I offered him to go to the beech together. I was not very interested in meeting him (he seems to be a bit country), but I decided to do this as a charity. Anyways, we set a date for the trip (it's only 30 miles away). Then, the day before the trip I started making arrangements as to when and where we should meet. I told him to come over here to my office and park his car here so that we can go together to the beech. The guy said that HE WILL NOT GO WITH ME IN MY CAR! HE IS SCARED THAT I'M GOING TO KILL HIM. HE OFFERED TO DRIVE THERE IN TWO CARS. I was in a bad mood that day and simply told him to go alone. Then he said "OK, OK, let's go in your car". But I told him never to approach me again.
The reason I offered to drive is that the guy got his DL just two month ago. And I'm not comfortable riding with someone who is a bad driver.
THE QUESTION THAT BOTHERS ME: AM I A COMPLETE JERK OR IS HE A COMPLETE FREAK?